DISCLAIMER: I do watch the Kardashian's on a weekly basis, as a loyal fan; I find their lives fascinating, but I DO NOT what-so-ever admire them or look up to them... I just wanted to get that out there!
It has been released today, that Kim Kardashian and husband Kris Humphries have filed for a divorce after 3 SHORT months of marriage.
This irritates me for 2 MAJOR reasons, which you will read below:
1. Money, MONEY, Money!---The wedding has been surrounded in money from the HIDEOUS and over sized $2 million engagement ring, the $50,000 his-and-her Vegas bachelor/ette party, the overpriced shower, the expensive engagement party, rehearsal dinner and the $10 MILLION dollar wedding!!!!! Plus they are rumored to have received a whopping $1.5 million dollar check for selling their wedding pictures to the smut magazines!
Dont get me wrong, every girl should have the wedding of her dreams, but come'on folks- there's a limit here and this Kardashian-Humphries wedding went WAY WAY WAY beyond that limit!
Arent weddings supposed to be about first and foremost, the joining of two lives into one! It's all about the bride and the groom, love and celebrating that love with their loved ones!
It's not about money and how much we can put into throwing an extravaganza!
This wedding was a complete and udder waste of money! Isnt our country in a recession? Arent major corporations filing for bankruptcy? Arent people loosing thier homes, cars, jobs and more due to financial strain?... YES YES YES! and here you have the Kardashian's who have made their fame and fortune- by acting crude and inappropriate, like imbeciles- on TV making millions of dollars, to never life a finger or put in a 9-5 day of hard work! I'm sorry but I work for my money, I put in my time sitting at a desk- doing WORK! Not "playing" on TV. There are thousands of American's out there whom are either 1. Willing, able and looking for work and 2. Working their butts off just to try to keep milk and bread on the tables!
To see a wedding which in the end when all is said and done, cost $15 MILLION dollars upward wasted and over in 3 months is horrible, shameful, and a disgrace. Ms Kim Kardashian ex Humpries should be ashamed of herself for this! What a childish, selfish and self absorbed brat she is! Isn't there something ELSE that she could have done with that money? Like built a new homeless shelter, donate to struggling families, donate to the working class, hospitals, fire departments, police departments- ANYBODY other than thrown out the window into a wedding that she couldn't even make the marriage last a year?! UGH DISGUSTING!!!!
2. Weddings aren't just for the party they are there to celebrate LOVE, UNITY and MARRIAGE!!!!!! This whole situation made it very apparent that Ms. Kardashian/Humphries was in it just for the big princess wedding. If she were in if for the marriage, she would have realized that her and Kris were a BAD pair- which was obvious multiple times throughout the latest season of Keeping up with the Kardashians. There were so many times on the show that as a viewer looking from the outside in, you just knew that things were wrong. There were so many signs that things were wrong, the biggest sign- if your family whom you are the closest with do not like you boyfriend/fiance, then maybe they know something more than you do. If you FIGHT (everybody fights in the weeks leading up to a wedding) and argue constantly- up until the night of you rehearsal dinner- then you are in TROUBLE! If you say, "I hate him" at your rehearsal dinner, about your husband to be, then you are in TROUBLE!
I dont know it yet, but I ASSUME that weddings are pretty stressful and I'm sure that the weeks and days leading up to the big day have to be among the most stressful...I'm sure its natural to be nervous, to argue and to just be scared- but to be mad at each other the way that Kim and Kris were the days before their wedding= BAD NEWS!!!
Then we have the issue of Ms. Kardashian NOT wanting to change her last name and Kris 1. not knowing about this and 2. not agreeing with this.... UMMMMMM isnt this something that you two should discuss before your wedding is like 2 days away?! Isnt marriage supposed to be the merging of 2 lives into 1. I know that the one thing that I look forward to when getting married would have to be taking the last name of my husband. THATS MARRIAGE! You start a new life together, you become one, a family, a unity- you take on the last name!
Sorry for the long rant, but this Kardashian situation just really pisses me off! It's not right! I seriously hope that she goes to bed thinking about the horrible choices that she's made. I think she's and idiot and hopefully the rest of the world will too....
You can bet that when I get married someday, its going to be for the RIGHT reasons, wedding or no wedding, I just want a day with my family to celebrate the unity and the sacrament of our MARRIAGE! No matter what life throws at us, we're going to work on things. I'm not a quitter, marriage is the long haul and I'm ready to take it on head first!
